Childhood Leukemia, GVHD, and Courage: The Legacy of My Nephew Finn
- Justin McCurdy
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⭐ Remembering Finn — A Life of Courage, Hope, and Love
🧡 This article is dedicated to my nephew, Finn — the bravest warrior I have ever known.
A Special Tribute from JustinsKeyToHomeLife.com to Support FriendsOfFinn.org
Some stories change us forever. Today, I want to share one of those stories — the story of a brave 12-year-old boy named Finn, who battled leukemia with unimaginable strength, received a bone marrow transplant from a courageous donor, then developed graft-versus-host disease (GVHD), and touched countless hearts along the way.
Although Finn is no longer with us, his spirit continues to shine. His parents, Jamie and Tamie, created the Friends of Finn Foundation to honor him and to support pediatric cancer and bone marrow transplant patients who are fighting the hardest battles of their lives. His sisters, Abbie and Katherine, also carry his memory and courage forward.

This article is not just a remembrance — it is an invitation. An invitation to help carry forward Finn’s legacy of compassion, strength, and love by supporting other families facing the same long hospital nights, the same uncertainty, and the same fear that Jamie, Tamie, Abbie, and Katherine lived through.
If you feel moved at any point while reading, you can support Finn’s foundation directly:
🧡 Donate here: https://www.gofundme.com/f/Friends-of-Finn-Foundation
🌿 Finn’s Journey — Strength Beyond Years
When Finn was 10 years old, he was diagnosed with leukemia — a word no family ever wants to hear. Treatment meant long hospital stays, intense chemotherapy, uncertainty, and countless moments that would test even the strongest adults.
But Finn met every challenge with courage and resilience far beyond his age. Through months of treatment, he beat leukemia. That victory offered hope — a chance at a full, healthy life ahead.
To protect that future, Finn received a bone marrow transplant from a generous and courageous donor whose selfless act gave him a second chance.
But as many families know, bone marrow transplantation carries significant risks. After the transplant, Finn developed graft-versus-host disease (GVHD) — a serious complication in which donor cells attack the patient’s tissues.
For Finn, GVHD became a relentless battle.
Yet even through unimaginable pain and uncertainty, Finn continued to inspire everyone around him. Nurses admired his humor. Doctors respected his strength. And his parents and sisters witnessed a courage that left them forever changed.
Finn passed away at age 12 from complications of GVHD. Despite his short time on earth, he left behind a legacy of courage, compassion, and extraordinary strength.
🧡 From Heartache to Hope — The Birth of Friends of Finn
In the midst of heartbreak, Finn’s parents, Jamie and Tamie, made a decision: they would carry Finn’s light forward. They founded the Friends of Finn Foundation, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit based in Carmel, Indiana, dedicated to helping other children facing pediatric cancer and transplant complications.

What the Foundation Stands For
According to FriendsOfFinn.org, their mission is to:
“Support pediatric cancer and bone marrow transplant patients by creating and delivering care packages, comfort items, and encouragement throughout their treatment journey.”
Their goal is simple but profoundly meaningful: to bring comfort, dignity, hope, and love to children like Finn.
🧡 Childhood Leukemia & GVHD — The Realities Families Face
To understand why this foundation matters, it’s important to understand the medical battles children like Finn endure.
Childhood leukemia today
Thanks to medical advancements, survival rates for childhood leukemia have dramatically improved. For example:
Children diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia (ALL) now have about a 94% five-year survival rate.(Source: Our World in Data)
Overall childhood leukemia survival in the U.S. is ~86% (2015–2021).(Source: National Cancer Institute SEER Program)
Those numbers reflect incredible progress — but they don’t erase the pain, fear, and uncertainty families endure.
Bone marrow transplant outcomes
For many children, transplant offers the only chance for long-term survival. One study reports a 70% five-year survival rate for pediatric bone marrow transplant recipients.(Source: American Society for Transplantation and Cellular Therapy)
GVHD — The harshest complication
GVHD occurs when donor immune cells attack the patient’s organs. It can affect:
skin
gastrointestinal tract
liver
lungs
mouth
multiple other organs
Moderate to severe GVHD sharply reduces survival rates. Historical data shows a ~42% long-term survival at 10 years after chronic GVHD.(Source: National Center for Biotechnology Information / PubMed)
This is the reality Finn faced. This is why support, compassion, and community matter so deeply.
🧡 What Friends of Finn Provides — Real Support, Real Impact
The Friends of Finn Foundation brings warmth, hope, and love to children and families experiencing the hardest moments of their lives.
🧡 Comfort & Care Packages
Thoughtfully curated items help brighten the long days in the hospital:
soft blankets
toys and games
books
cozy clothing
activity items
handwritten encouragement cards
These small comforts often mean the most during long days of treatment and recovery.
🧡 Emotional Support for Families
Childhood cancer affects parents, siblings, and loved ones. Friends of Finn offers:
encouragement
community
emotional support
reminders that families are not alone
🧡 Raising Awareness
The foundation works to:
educate the public about leukemia
increase understanding of GVHD
highlight the needs of bone marrow transplant patients
support families in moments of crisis
Once more, here is the donation link for those who feel inspired:🧡 https://www.gofundme.com/f/Friends-of-Finn-Foundation
🧡 Why Share Finn’s Story on a Home-Life Website?
Because “home” is not just a place — it’s the people we love, the values we carry, and the connections that shape our lives.
Finn was my nephew, and he was the bravest warrior I have ever seen. His courage through unthinkable challenges inspired every person around him — and continues to inspire me today.
JustinsKeyToHomeLife.com is about creating meaningful, beautiful lives — and sometimes, the most meaningful part of life is opening our hearts to stories of courage, compassion, and community. Finn’s story reminds us of what truly matters.
By sharing it, I hope to honor him, support his family, and help other children and families still fighting their hardest battles.
🧡 Be Part of Finn’s Legacy — How You Can Help
1. Donate to the Friends of Finn Foundation
Your support brings comfort, hope, and dignity to children facing cancer and GVHD.
🧡 Donate now: https://www.gofundme.com/f/Friends-of-Finn-Foundation
2. Share Finn’s Story
Sharing generates awareness — and awareness inspires action.
3. Support Families in Your Own Community
Small acts of kindness can provide tremendous comfort.
🧡 Final Tribute: Finn’s Light Lives On
Finn lived only 12 years, but the impact he left behind is immense.
His courage.
His humor.
His resilience.
His love.
They continue to shine through the mission his parents, Jamie and Tamie, created — and through the hearts of his sisters, Abbie and Katherine.
Every donation, every shared story, every act of kindness carries Finn’s light forward.
If you want to be part of that legacy, here is the final donation link:
🧡 Become a Friend of Finn today: https://www.gofundme.com/f/Friends-of-Finn-Foundation
From my home to yours — thank you for reading, caring, and supporting Finn’s legacy of compassion and hope.
With Love,
Justin











